Sunday 28 June 2020

Six and still such a baby

Our little Yang is six!

Yang was lucky that things opened up just before his birthday. We got to do some things outside the house, which was great!

On Friday, we decided on a little excursion to the Bukit Timah Summit. He was quite excited about it at first but when we got there, the initial steep slope turned him off. I said we would go until he wanted to stop. But he carried on. At a fork, he decided to go for the shorter stairs to the summit rather than the longer slope. That was when he started to do way better than me. 

Hands through the non-existent "glass" = magic!


Breakfast at Han's coz he wanted to see the queue number on the screen. But later when we passed by Yakun, he said he meant that. Too late!

He tried my eggs and liked it!


I didn't order anything for myself as I was recovering from a tongue ulcer and I thought I would just eat the eggs. Oh well. But later, he gave me maybe a third of the eggs and half of his toast so I had some breakfast too, with water. 

Eyeing the bend in the straw...


大眼睛! And alien face hoho!


We were outside Macs when my right sole started coming off


Ok, that was a pretty old pair of shoes from before Evanston! I can't say I used it very much though, oops.... But good while it lasted! Not too keen to go shopping for such things yet though, hmm...

Changed into another pair - quite broken too!


Surprised to see monkeys almost right as we turned in from the main road!


Yang was a bit shocked to see so many monkeys everywhere. He stuck close to me but soon, he waved to a baby monkey in his sweet way :) After this, we saw two nice birds and no other creatures - likely coz he was very loud in his Yang Yang way hoho!

Honestly, I didn't know the way to the foot of the hill. There were signs. There were no signs. But there were a few people on the road so I followed. And we got there!

He poses really well now


Yeah! We're here!


The way to the summit was easier. But it was quite an anticlimax to reach the top actually - I mean, it kind of just suddenly appeared. And Yang didn't seem to believe me when I said this was the highest natural point in Singapore. Maybe coz we couldn't look out to anything...

But I had really really wanted to go for many years. I missed an opportunity to go with the Girl Guides one year coz I was told to go back for some oral exam but the teacher didn't show up! I was so pissed. Then I thought I went there some 15 years ago with a colleague and her church friends but none of this looked familiar to me! *.*

He took off his shirt coz it was hot; then he ran around to avoid mosquitoes ^.^


I asked if he wanted a photo and he suggested this pose - he very good indeed


We read many signs along the way


Yang thought this looks like a person


Took the slope down


At the start of the very steep slope, he felt hungry *.*


We took off our masks while panting on the way up but put them back on going down


So there, we made this round trip from the visitor centre to the summit in all of 50 min! Yang was quite tired and hungry, and proclaimed that he would not do this again. Poor boy. We walked out to the bus stop and I decided to carry the poor boy for the last 50m or so. Very heavy!!

Handsome kid walks to Star Vista


Happy with a free crab toy!


Passed by Shi Li fang Hotpot and he decided he wanted hotpot for lunch. All the talk about ymmy spaghetti went out the window! Just as well - we were pretty early and I wasn't sure if 18 Chefs was open yet!

So happy to see him eat noodles, meat and vege!


Surprised to see his egg yolk was still gooey!


We went to Star Vista not for nostalgia but for a dental visit, heh!


So despite all my misgivings about his yellow teeth, they were fine. Still, I took out my old retainers to show him how to brush properly and well later in the afternoon!

Dozed off in the cab - um, he swopped the crab for this pink panther at the till


Easy to wake him when it was for ice cream!


The old ice cream place we used to go to at Star Vista was gone. The new one didn't have cones coz the machine died. So we had to come back to Macs for his birthday ice cream.

Yang was playing Nintendo when Kai came home. Then they mostly entertained each other. Very good for me hoho! I cleaned up their messy toys and showed Yang an important video which I found on this useful experience. It's about poo! Coz poor Yang is often constipated. A few days ago, I felt a big hard thing when pressing his abdomen! Now I get him to drink warm milk at breakfast and sit on the toilet for 10 min after breakfast and dinner. Still no poo since Friday morning....

I woke to this on his birthday on Saturday


Think they were building tracks for the little Super Mario Karts we got Yang for his birthday *.* I went to do grocery shopping and collect his birthday cake from CCK. Came back to find that Mum had sent his presents - a remote controlled car and some activity books. We didn't manage to touch the activity books yet but the car has been a source of much arguments so far. I see another handle against them, heh!

Happy birthday, Yang!


He chose to have Star Wars for his cake. I changed the design at the last minute when I realised that I had ordered that design for him two years ago!

Hard to get all to look straight!


Yang did his first cut


My 大眼睛 baby is six already. He still looks and feels like such a baby. Two years ago, I couldn't believe that Kai was going to primary school coz first kid. Now, I couldn't believe this baby will be going primary school next year!

But he's a big boy now - 119 cm! I got him a book on comprehension - bridging K2 to P1. Oops. That aside, he had gems dropping out of his mouth at every turn on Friday! I can't remember the details though hoho! Have to try to jot it down asap next time.

May this boy continue to grow well. And may the next poo come very soon!

Tuesday 16 June 2020

Taking MC finally

I have been getting running nose every week or two, and usually over the precious weekend. It's maddening. This time, I started feeling the sniffles on Sunday night. Yesterday morning, the running nose exploded. I thought I would take MC but one video con led to another and it was soon 2 pm.

I had some spicy kimchi noodles to clear my nose and took a yellow tablet to stop the running nose. I managed to read one chapter of a Chinese book to Kai before sleep overtook me.

Somehow survived the kids last night but didn't sleep well coz Yu kept moving and staying up in our bed! Likely coz we didn't turn on the aircon so he didn't sleep well. Chased him back to his room but he came back again. Sighs.

I woke this morning to a full body ache and decided to take MC. Thought I would use one of the telemedicine providers on the MOH website. But Sito reminded me he could claim medical for dependents. So I went to the Raffles app to make an appointment to go downstairs and discovered they offer telemedicine too. Yeah, no need to go to clinic!

It was fuss free. I had some consultation at about 8.20 am. The doc gave me a standard five-day MC and told me to go get a COVID-19 swab test if symptoms should persist beyond that *.* The medicine arrived at 10.25 am. And I saw that the MC requires me to stay home BY LAW. Huh? Ok, I work from home anyway....

Then I realised that actually I could use any GP since Sito's benefits are by claim and not discount at a specific GP?? Ah well. It's convenient since I already have that app and rates are competitive.

Kai was complaining yesterday that I was grumpy when he had HBL and I was working. Very valid complaint. I told him he could ask me technical questions like wifi connection or log-in issues, but NOT how to do a specific homework; that would have to wait until 2 pm.

But since I'm on MC today, I'm not grumpy!! Just a bit slow...

PE during HBL :)


So I have been sitting with him this morning. If he has no questions, I write. But gosh, I'm still very sore! Can't wait to lie down...

Playing old toys, old games

Yesterday, I didn't want to turn on the aircon so we stayed in the living room for books and funny video. Facing the toys around the TV, I realised that it has been a while since we added new toys. And the results are wonderful:

1) They dig out old toys to play - the Tobots and old vehicles are getting loved again!

2) They start to build their own toys with Lego again - swords and Tobots are popular. It used to be just Kai but now Yang and Yu can build their own too! Thanks to Papa's fascination with Lego too, haha!

3) Chess is enjoying a new wave of popularity. Even Yu wanted to play - he could recognise 马 :)

But he plays with his own rules - check out his 兵 hoho!


4) Kai welcomes books on origami and magic tricks in the library app. 

I came home from fetching his brothers to find a marvellous scorpion created by Kai!


So Yu wanted a photo with his "burger" too :)


That face!!!

5) Seeing that we have time, I also dug out an old unopened pack of Donkey last weekend. Kai at first thought the one with the Donkey card would win and was secretly happy until he realised his mistake! The card swiftly got sent to me *.*

Yu passing a card to Yang


This is how he checks whether he has matching cards haha!


I'm always the Donkey!!! Sobs!


Then we decided to play memory game. At first three of them were playing. Then Kai got angry coz Yu managed to match two cards using one that Kai opened up earlier! Um, hello, that's the point?! So he left the game to Yang and Yu, who finished the game very quickly. Think this was much quicker than the Donkey game!

I enjoy seeing them play memory game which is a favourite of mine too :)


Cute things from my babies

One night, Yu climbed into our bed happily. Sito told him that he shouldn't come in anymore. And this boy repeated what I told him a couple of days before - he would stop coming in when he turns four! And we even shook our pinkies on that! Ok, we shall see.

"Look, I put for you!"


The kids aren't affected much by COVID-19 even though they learnt about it in school. No anxiety or worries. Yu spaced out our water bottles one day in late May and said "social distancing"!! That's quite something considering his age and that he was then almost two months away from school.. But I think there is some impact whenever we talk about things we couldn't do now. Yang's fave line was: Last time when there was no COVID-19.... Come to think of it, he uses "last time" a bit and quite interchangeably with yesterday...!

Kai is growing up fast and I find fewer such precious gems from him. Three Sundays ago, I slept at 7+ coz I wasn't well. The next day, they tried to tuck me in at the same time and sang rockabye baby. Suddenly, Kai exclaimed, "Shouldn't it be rockabye mama?!" And they roared in laughter! It was funny but... so funny meh?

The nice and the nua during the circuit breaker

I prefer to work in office. I need the kids to be in school. But there are perks to staying at home - I split them into the nice and the nua. 

Oh, forgive the tenses; wrote most of it during the circuit breaker..

The nice

I was going to say "I get to see Sito a lot more but not the other way round" when I recalled that no, it should be: We get to see each other a lot more but not necessarily at the same time! Coz by the time he's ready for work, I would be busy at work and hardly notice him - oops. And by the time I'm done with work and kids, he would be busy at work and could at most turn to me while still on a call when I go visit him in his "homework room", as Yu called it.

Except for the last couple of weeks when Sito worked late every night, we get to bed earlier - not to sleep but to watch drama! We can do up to four episodes a night, with emails, squats, foot massage, scanning hardcopy photos, handphone games, supper and ice cream in between! It's nice to snuggle :) I missed so much evening time with Sito before I started part-time coz I would be working at the desk until bedtime!

Sito and the kids get to see each other a lot more too. And at the same time, I guess, coz the kids are a bit hard not to notice - so noisy! When I'm busy with work or occupied with kiddy homework, one or two boys would go find Sito. Usually they are quite quiet, which means I would take time to fish them out! Or they would see each other when Sito comes out for water, lunch and dinner. Before bedtime, the kids may also go say goodnight, awww...

Yang says hello to Sito's colleagues


The kids and I get to see each other a lot more too. Sighs, why is that not normal in our life today?! Anyway, not having to travel back from office means I get more time in the afternoon though I now have to share Kai's time with his brothers too. I don't know if they like to see so much of me - I think I'm the person who controls Channel 5 and gives them Paw Patrol... *.*  But I like to see them WHEN THEY ARE GOOD BOYS, haha!

The kids get to spend a lot more time together as well. It used to be only weekday evenings when we're busy with coming home, dinner, shower and the whole bedtime thing, and whole day on weekends. Now, especially after the end of HBL when I don't enforce the routine as much, I hear them sing cartoon theme songs together, and see them play various old toys like the Tobot Tritan and old vehicles together. And I don't know if it's because they see so much of one another but I notice that sometimes, they find their own entertainment, each occupying a little corner of the house. But oh, do they fight!

Kai gets to eat lunch at a normal time instead of 2.30 pm. They all get to start dinner at 5.30 pm so there is no rush towards bedtime. Too early? No.... Kai usually finishes by 6.15 pm. Yu usually finishes before 6.30 pm. Yang usually finishes before 7.20 pm. Yes, 7.20 pm, almost two mama-ageing hours later! Thankfully, fruits have been shifted to 10 am so I don't have to wait any further for Yang to finish fruits after dinner! I should also be thankful that they finish their one-dish lunch in a much shorter time. Cannot understand why rice is so difficult to stomach...

Now that Yang and Yu have gone back to school, dinner starts at about 6.10 pm. So I have to brandish the cane during dinner time. The cane provides much motivation for them to focus on eating and finish by 7 pm. No one wants to be "friends" with the cane!

We also have a lot less laundry - no uniform, no towels from school, no socks! Even Kai's bedsheets - we haven't changed that for a while coz he hasn't slept in it since the start of the circuit breaker. What was a twice-weekly affair is a full-time thing now - Sito shares Yu's mattress every night. I'm glad they enjoy sleeping in the same room :) 

The nua

When I first started working from home before the circuit breaker, I still had to send Kai to school. I thought I would stay be mei mei despite working from home. But when the kids started to stay at home too, the motivation to stay mei mei was lower. 

I wear pyjamas pants the whole day. After all, video conference shows only my face and shoulders :p

I haven't worn jewellery for the past two months. Sito just went back to office this week so he's wearing his wedding ring. Mine's back in a box for the first time in 11 years!

That said, I try to be as not nua as I can. For example, I still put on makeup. Partly coz I bought a small stash just before the circuit breaker, partly coz I prefer my skin matt and silky rather than shiny dewy from moisturiser.

And sometimes, I can't be nua even if I want to. For example, I thought I would let the hair on my legs grow wild only to buay tahan by the end of the first month! So back to threading. I only wish I could thread my eyebrows too but it's so hard!

Wednesday 3 June 2020

A break from the usual 3 June

It was also a Wednesday 11 years ago :)

Mr and Mrs Sito :) - from the eyes of Yang


Put on the happy birthday tag, heh - lovely red velvet cake that even Kai ate (albeit only a bit)


We used to go for a good meal on this day. For this year, coz our Legoland passes are expiring next week, we had wanted to go to Legoland 3-6 June - we could still have our good meal after a day at Legoland! But with COVID-19, that was not to be. 

So we thought we could head out somewhere but we are exiting the circuit breaker in phases and at this early stage, (a) there's no dining out, and more importantly, (b) the kids are still home this week!

Jumbo! Still had crab, yummy!


So apart from the crab and the cake, it felt very much like a weekend coz we spent it with the kids. It happened that Sito bought a new mini Lego set so now we have a mini theme park - my 抓娃娃机,some drop down thrill ride, and the new aeroplane ride!

My boys piecing the aeroplane ride together, together :)


Three for three! But no, they didn't rotate among themselves *.*


And so here we are, 11 years and days are ordinary, ordinary and good :)